​If your People are open, clear of mind and attentive,
If your context (aka Culture) allows for purposeful interactions and integrations, and
If they are cognitively diverse and have the Skills to leverage each others difference, and problem solve together - you will have a very powerful team.

One of the simplest and often overlooked contributor to the above is to have people pay attention, to be present.

Thought this might help. It is a simple A4 poster that you can share with your team about the importance of attending to what you are doing - minimising distraction.

Really valuable and simple piece of knowledge to help people prevent mistakes (including injury) and do good quality work.
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My clients find it useful, so I thought I'd share it with you.

 Let me know if you find it helpful.

Meetings are a significant investment by an organisation.
 
Ideal world - people come into a common space to work together and solve problems effectively and quickly.

Reality - people attend meetings simply because it is in their calendar and treat the meetings as events to 'endure', interrupting their real work.

They OUGHT to be big time savers, but in reality they are more often the biggest waste of time (possibly second only to email - this email is the obvious exception 🙂) in a leader's week.

But when your organisation seems addicted to meetings, how can you make the best of that time?

First question: "Do I need to be there at all?"
Many of the meetings we attend are habituated, simple updates, or you're included to 'keep you in the loop' rather than contribute to outcome. So ask sincerely, "Do I need to be at this meeting?" If not, communicate with the convenor and get taken off the invite list (don't just not show up).

For the ones that do matter:

YOUR role in these time-expensive events is simple:

• listen, learn and understand,
• form a view, and
• contribute to creating a productive exchange, with....
  • problems explored and where possible solved
  • actions agreed

How well you do this will determine your influence. These four tips will make a difference.

1. Clear the decks
Be present - BE there at the meeting! An obvious point, but it is too easy to be unfocused and distracted, thinking about other work issues. Distractions undermine your ability to understand and communicate, you are just not as clever when you are not paying full attention.

Distractions (eg second screen whilst on a Zoom/Teams meeting) make you miss stuff - that you don't know you've missed. You may FEEL like you're nailing the meeting and getting some admin done at the same time; truth is you are doing neither to your best ability. Just like when you can see others who are distracted - they will see you're not really there. It is disrespectful of your time and theirs.

2. Think it through
Do the thinking work and come prepared. The meeting must have a clear agenda or outcome. So, think it through, and be clear about the outcome and purpose of the meeting. Be clear about where the discussion could go and work to it 'on point'.

The whole point of a meeting is to harness the power of many. To leverage from DIFFERENT perspectives, heuristics, and skills. So allow the meeting to think it through, the different brains applied to the context is the very point of the meeting. It is not to simply hear what the boss thinks and deploy.

3. Check your mind-state
Your effectiveness will be compromised if you are frustrated, tired, rushing, or stressed. In those mind-states, people are less able to communicate effectively. Less able to understand other people's perspectives. They are more likely to make face-saving / short-term decisions, engage in blame/guilt, and self-protective behaviour.
And those mind-states are contagious.

Even a marginal downgrade in mood across a meeting can have a material effect on creativity and problem-solving. Put simply the meeting 'disintegrates' and you lose the main benefit of holding a meeting in the first place; access to different perspectives that the different minds have, to solve the problems faced.

There IS NO POINT having a meeting where the participants are not listening to each other.

If you, or you can see that others, are in one of those mind states; simply pause for a few minutes, focus on your breath and dial the whole thing back 10 or 20% and then recommence.

4. Build good meeting and conversation habits

• Always state or be clear about "why" - the purpose/outcome.
• Always work to an agenda, problem solving/collaboration tool, or simple process.
• Always have the meeting during the meeting - not in the hallway afterwards, or via a text with a select few. If you've got something to say - say it!
• Always be clear about the actions / decisions made.
• Always hold people to account for undertakings they make at the meeting.

The more you and your team get used to thinking in this way, the more productive and easier the meetings will become.

We've all had the sensation of intuition. "I don't know why, but this doesn't feel right" or "I just know that this will work." We bet on a horse that "I've just got a feeling is bound to win" and are shocked when it doesn't.

We revere this sensation as though it is some deeper truth– more true than other evidence.  

This is a false view.

The best way to think about intuition is in a similar way to how we think about sight, sound and other more 'direct' senses.  We know that for the most part our sight is pretty good for what it has emerged to do.  We can navigate our world, find what we are looking for without bumping into things.  We rely on our sight to keep us safe.  So far so good.  However, we also know that our eyes can deceive us.

What we see isn't a photograph of what is there, but a constructed - imagined - representation of what is most likely to help us navigate.  Our brain's best guess.  adjusted for usefulness.  We've all seen various visual illusions where, for example, two equal lines look different lengths based on how the line is positioned. Because we can measure the truth with a ruler we accept that our eyes are wrong, marvel at the sensation and go about our day.

We tend not to be this scientific with 'intuition' because it is difficult to measure the accuracy against anything objective.

I coach my clients to think of intuition like a higher level aggregation of other senses and memories that provides a 'felt measure of confidence'.  Our brain is looking to predict safety.  It makes a guess (prediction) measures this against the sensory data (light, sound etc) and memory patterns (how well does this data match existing memory patterns and what do those patterns tell us about how safe we are).

The nagging sense that something isn't right is your brain saying "there is something about this that doesn't allow a prediction of safety" or "there is something about this that is similar to a previous dangerous experience"  both of these will produce an intuition of nagging doubt. Such doubt is worth listening to, acknowledging and in the case of making a risky decision or action, worth stepping back and checking before jumping.

However, you can see a few ways it can be wrong.  For example, what if the person you feel uneasy about just happens to look like someone who caused you harm 20 years ago.  Your brain may find 'something fishy about this person' for no other reason than the coincidence of appearance.

What if the nagging doubt is about something you know to be on balance good for you, such as establishing a new exercise habit.  But when your brain 'checks' with memory patterns for what this might mean for you and doesn't have any evidence for safety having never joined a gym before, or finds risk to what I consider normal or good ("I don't want to be end up like one of those gym junkies"), you can end up letting your "it just didn't feel right" to be an excuse for not acting in your best interest.

My message is pay attention to your intuition.  It is powerful and helpful for the most part.  If your brain says "slow down and check" then listen!  Especially when it comes to physical safety.

Take a precautionary approach– if you feel 'too confident' you probably are. So check yourself, check evidence, look more closely, and think further into the future– "how is this likely to play out?".  

If you feel danger or unease - act to make sure you and those around you are safe first – seek additional sources of evidence to help you determine the risk more clearly.

Intuition is a higher level sense so use it.  However, in a competition between "good science" and "my gut"– science wins regardless of how I feel about it.

The application of the science of mind as it relates to managing people, stress, conflict, change and personal productivity turns happiness into a commercially smart leadership priority.  Building personal leadership and authentic happiness focuses on the solution – not the symptom.

The skills to improve authentic happiness are teachable.  These skills reduce stress and the possibility of conflict whilst also improving resilience, strategic thinking, customer service and productivity.  It’s like fitness training for mental health.  You are teaching your key people how to self-manage their responses to situations in the moment when it matters.

Imagine what your workplace would be like if your key people were fully engaged and firing on all their mental cylinders more of the time.  Like a hydrofoil; they rise above the chop of daily life and enjoy a powerful and smooth run.
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The deliberate focus on teaching people how to apply the science of mind to build authentic happiness will do more for the effectiveness and attitude of your key people than any other type of personal leadership development.

Many believe EQ is a "you've got it or you don't" trait like height or eye colour but that view is false. Emotional intelligence is teachable like any other skill and buildable like any other strength. However, it comes with the same limitations and caveats, individuals start from different levels and it takes effort, it requires changing thought patterns and being outside of your comfort zone. 
Below I outline my approach which works consistently. It is simple - but that doesn't mean easy. Like physical fitness, it takes consistent effort over time.

It's unusual for a leadership coach to tell their clients they haven't got as much free will as they think. Kinda goes against the "you can do it." message that is part of premise of coaching. 
But it is a message I've been giving for years.  Why? Well because it is true. ​